(this is a note i post in my face book everyone says its a great blog so i decided to put it on my blog site)
“There is no feeling more comforting and consoling than knowing you are right next to the one you love.”
but what if the one you love is the very same person who dumb and leaves you alone. and what if the one you love cant comfort you anymore because she/he leaves you alone and the reason of your sorrow.
i have been into these situation so many times., and i can proudly say i didn't feel sorry for them for I become the greatest girlfriend/ partner i can be. i had given my all but they did take it for granted. and they (don't deserve me for that). same for those who suffer like me.
this is for those persons who's loves was so great to those wrongfully persons;
Love is the greatest thing that can make a person happy but it is the very same thing that can make a person suffer (especially for those who love the most). god really makes an extraordinary love story for those person he knows who's strong enough for test's. he really gives us a person to love who were playful or let us just say wrong person to love not for us to become a BAD person i mean because they hurt us we will hurt others too. god gives us wrong person to love for us to be able to teach them how to become a great lover. he wants us to show a great love and affection to those persons. and if that person didn't change it is not our problem anymore. what matter is that we love them with all we have and gave/show them what we had.
there are really so many dilemma's in letting go., yes it is hard to for get a person especially if she/he become the biggest part of our life how can we really forget them?? well it is really hard but we should learn to put our selves first, love our selves first before loving anyone else., yes we remember those sweet moments and those sour fights. but if you continue to think all those memories you can never start to move on. try to go out with your friends, but dont rush into falling in love again., you should be more careful this time., think every single things not just one, or twice but think it a hundred time. enjoy everyday with your friends besides we don't need to be in a relationship always., Alcohols? well those cant help yes they just easing the pain but it is just for a couple of hours, it can never take off the pain even a little. we girls used to fix our selves every time someone broke us., but for the boys used alcohols., well just wait patiently gods is just busy creating a great love story for us.
don't just move on., MOVE FORWARD and LEAVE that safe zone you both build together specially if you know you where just the only one left in there. cause there's someone out there who deserved to be loved.
in every hello there's GOODBYE but it is not the end of it, there would be another HELLO again and the next time you would say hello i wish you had finally moved forward, so you can give the love a person deserve.
[michelle.abella]
